DS9 Document EFTA00719453

From: To: Jeffrey Epstein <[email protected]> Subject: Re: labels Date: Sat, 21 Apr 2012 17:09:10 +0000 Well, that was unnecessarily harsh.. 1. It Is a fact that the time I spent with you will make my future dating difficult, but that is mostly a result of you exposing me to your unusual lifestyle and reprogramming all my values, priorities and sense of right and wrong, when you started dating me as a teenager. I was a willing participant, so don't think I am blaming you for it or using it as an excuse. I'm just stating a fad. Because of you I have come to not only tolerate, but genuinely prefer and seek a lifestyle that includes other girls and an 'open' relationship... If you call that selfish, jealous or small-minded, I don't know what to say. It's true this may be difficult to find but it is for the opposite reasons than those you listed. 2. Love is a now a label? You had no problem 'labeling' your relationships since I met you. Your sudden artificial refusal to have an adult conversation and use common English words because you don't want to "put labels' on things, supports your stubbomness more than your open-minded and unconventional views about relationship's. Why would you make a passive-aggressive comment like "Glad to see your reaction is not based on my being happy or not', and then refuse to answer the question. I have no idea if you are happy. I want you to be. But judging by your random spurts of anger and obsessive focus on the negative detail while overlooking the vast positive (In people, work, design and everyday life), I don't even dare to venture a guess. I really hope you ARE happy and I hope it lasts. I would also hope that when you are done with this one, you don't blame it on the poor girl's 'selfishness' and 'jealousy' but maybe take a closer look in the mirror. I promise that if you don't address your negativity and aggressive mood swings, you are going to have a very hard time, and so is she. When that happens, I won't say I told you so, like you do. I just hope you take something from it. I wish you well. Pardon my honesty. PS: I hope you realize our communications are confidential and any information I share with you is not to be disclosed to any person, with or without a label. From: Jeffre E stein <' evacation@gmaitcom> To: Sent: Saturday, April 21, 2012 9:22 AM Subject: Re: These labels of love , girlfriend, etc are yours to do as you please but i would appreciate it if you leave me out of your need to pigeion hole, realtionships into a pedestrian box. I will pay for your g4 school. as i refuse to be an excuse for you not doing well. I promise my feelings wil not be hurt if you tell me you are happy, as it seeems consiatntly the case with your feelings. I told you early on , that you would end up here, I am sorry, I will try to find you an interesing boy, but i have little hope. .your selfishness , jealously, small mindedmes, makes it difficult . On Sat, Apr 21. 2012 at 4:03 AM, > wrote: Really? I asked if you were in love, you thought that was inappropriate and didn't answer... I leamed you have a girl in your life. I don't want to stand in the way of your happiness so removing myself from the flying situation seemed like the right thing to do, despite the fact it combines two things I love most. I don't know what you want and whether you are happy or not. Are you? From: Jeffrey <[email protected]> EFTA00719453 To: < > Sent: Saturday, April 21, 2012 3:55 AM Subject: Re: Glad to see your reaction is not based on my being happy or not. Sorry for all the typos .Sent from my iPhone EFTA00719454