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To: From: Jeffrey Epstein Sent Tue 10/27/2009 10:36:00 AM when you are head over heels in love you will do anything to make her happy. But when do you draw the line? When you know that you arc turning her into a spoiled brat. You know you arc turning her into a spoiled brat when she tries to rationalize her actions even if they are downright wrong, impractical or even abusive. Over tolerance and acceptance can turn her into a monster and your relationship into a chaotic and distressing place to be. Too much of everything is damaging and this includes tolerance and acceptance. When you truly love the person, even if it hurts you, you need to be tough if you know it's for the best. Spoiled child syndrome , the spoiled child syndrome was identified and described by Bruce McIntosh in 1989. The syndrome is characterized by "excessive, self-centered, and immature behavior". It includes lack of consideration for other people, an inability to handle the delay of gratification, demands for having one's own way, and obstructiveness.,. McIntosh attributed the syndrome to "the failure of parents to enforce consistent, limits", but others, such as Aylward, note that temperament is probably a contributory factor. Etiology • Failure of parents to enforce limits. • Parents shielding the child from normal everyday frustrations. • Provision of excessive material gifts, even when the child has not behaved properly. *********************************************************** The information contained in this communication is confidential, may be attorney-client privileged, may constitute inside information, and is intended only for the use of the addressee. It is the property of Jeffrey Epstein Unauthorized use, disclosure or copying of this communication or any part thereof is strictly prohibited and may be unlawful. If you have received this communication in error, please notify us immediately by return c-mail or by e-mail to [email protected], and destroy this communication and all copies thereof, including all attachments. EFTA_R1_00192630 EFTA01819847