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&oiS- 2ct9 4-eerrre_RN CF VS - EH eV lt)0(<* co kRcs 3 SEK Oft- TA C11511 NC, V iNcE1QT Lot.) e ("A MR a 1 Ci P RID POSe Lit - Earen o ..y_FRAN;ce,t_ PATTERN OF CONDUCT / BEHAVIOUR Plc057 Portrayed himself as a relationship / Defacto relationship - • Targeting on a dating site * • Gained trust - generous - kind - sensitive - portrayed as being caring and supportive, 1 kind natured and trust worthy • Deceitful - Lying about his relationship partner Tula Terry - Lying about his name - Lying about the photographs on the dating site that were a prostitute - Lying about looking for sexual experimentation - constant lying about his behaviour and activities • Prostitution involvement - Sophia, Adelaide • Continuous lying - Deceitful Behaviour • Denial of behaviour - Womanising • Portrayed betrayal to cause emotional devastation - Scratches on his neck and shoulders as if being with another woman and lying claiming that "Your nails are slCur when we had not had sexual relations before the event 4- • Started saying "Thank you" after sexual interactions - form of grooming for 1 prostitution and disrespect of the relationship and victim ? Reverse tactic of Fraudulent Activity and Targeting - Toconfuse the victim and make her believe that he had become the target and he was not the predator of sexual targeting and government targeting 4 • Conspiring with the Government - Second attempt of Murder to appear as suicide / * Psychological encouragement - Chiming that I had a Mental Health Problem and that I was delusional about his behaviour "*. • Womanising - Constant contact with other woman - Constant attention to other women - constantly talldng about other women A >fr• • Marriage proposals - Numerous marriage proposals - Creating a false sense of security4 6Dpg leading to emotional destruction to create vulnerability / fall into the arms of someone else for emotional comfort • Started to become un-supporting - Claimed he would reduce his work travel commitments but instead increased them leaving me at home un-supported and alone in the home - Resulting in emotional vulnerability i • Started to show a lack of interest in sexual relations • Portrayed as a relationship - Introduced me to his parents and sister in _- Deceitful behaviour, no respect for his family or myself - Introduced me to his employment colleagues • Provided a lavish lifestyle and numerous expensive gifts g_• Sexual Targeting during my fathers illness, Terminal Cancer * • Denial of involvement in targeting or knowledge of the targeting - Deceitful behaviour • Emotional destruction * . Intellectual Property Theft - Medical Research Project 2014 - 2016, hand written in Port Pirie and a proposal submitted to Pharmaceutical Company 2016 in his possession PAC and funded by the Government • Unusual comments 4. Suicidal tendencies - Threatening suicide Unusual behaviour - portrayed behaviour of what I was researching on Goggle about womanising*hile he was at work- Watching / Access to Government Shared Illegal Surveillance At • Family Criminal Involvement - Murder / Grandfather, Sicily • Ceased contact without explanation EFTA00263284 I removed all business concepts from my computer and copied all flies to a disconnected harddrive. The business concepts and developments were stored in a locked vault designed through McAfee Security System and was password protected. McAfee Security System is password protected and password protected for administration changes as well All newly created accounts and security systems are 2 step verification coded, and Authentication app is required in order to access any accounts or systems on my new computer system, mobile phone and Apple Tablet. Second hacking occurred following all these measures being used and put in place. Mobile phone security upgrade - Finger print authentication on all access to apps, screen, opening of phone, security systems, phone calls, messages, photo gallery / McAfee Security System - Nord VPN - Malwarebytes Security System - Password and fingerprint encoded on all access points Refer to file - Telstra report Fraudulent activity - Continuous hacking of account / personal and then business account - Direct Targeting of the Individual Government are gaining direct access through the account registered in their company Telstra / Government owned / Foreign investors I am now currently not receiving constant correspondence from my contracted publisher Austin Macauley Publishers, London concerning the second contract, second edition of the book developments : Email : Business email, server GoDaddy, America Suspected : Intellectual Property Theft / Publishing House Copyright Laws, individuals involved in the targeting to sell the books on the Black Market and intercept success of the publications sabotaging the publishing house, Austin Macauley Publishers, investment in their client / profit from book sales and the success of their client / victim of targeting cce,-ve N t ,14 - F-ReM)CC- j-- CRI t-t t Nn L Oc.--T I ki L Ty • c_oNeCcere--- 0 •-cc. t\ et yoeK - eiecareft Mv5,cvvEtt.. FAMILY HISTORY OF CRIMINAL ACTIVITY - BULONE Vincent Bulone informed me during our relationship that his grandfather, Vincenzo k eiG Salvatore Balon Sic' was involved in a murder. His grandfathetWincenzo Stivatore-f --,kBulone ha w of dead a man in Sicily over a woman and then fled tmNew Yorab escape conviction and to hide. Vincent Bulone is named after his grandfather but was adapted for the French region from Vincenzo Salvatore Bulone to Vincent Salvatore Bulone. Vincent Bulone's family relocated to France from Sicily : 4Address Vincent Bulone has a older sister who resides in France also. At the time of meeting his sister she was going through a divorce. She has two children, a so and a daughter, the daughters name is Sophinette, wh#Vincent is in constant contact withW his sister and neice+via Whatsapp app'- Refer to Folder 17. Whatsapp app EFTA00263285 First met on MANI Dating Site / Phone contact - Stated that his name was "David" 75.61-•/ ac I s Deceitful Behaviour / nature Capable of being dishonest / lying Vinront -TRON5F6ARC.-1-0 TO WORK llotQC NOMC3ER FROM Pticcsie Messages in this that private and protected end-to-end encryption team, more_ Hi Darling, I have just installed Viber on this phone as I have it connected to internet all the time, which is difficult with the other one especially when I travel. I wilt use this account from now on to chat with you It is also now my real name Vincent instead of_ the stupid other one... love - you my sexy star, at work xxx love hi ric4riinri ole;:lxi no EFTA00263286 7/13/2020 Mall - Outlook PdpfctRn‘-/ I AC RELeTtoNSH tP - iSELEWFUL. 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MS AIEL.4z) ce.s cow -SST)' e (7\ EFTA00263288 QS \ICH° LOGICAL COO NSECA-A t\C-4 CNC CORI' - el\ri v iNce-Nyr ee Uc,NE (32olci GOVERNMENT TARGETING : MOTIVE : INTELLECTUAL PROPERTY THEFT Refer to Stage 4 1993 - 2020 Intellectual Property Theft INTENTION : SEXUAL TARGETING Deformation of Character / Reputation / Credibility Sexual Targeting / Sexual abuse to cause Deformation of Character / bodily harm / psychological harm Portrayed relationships - Emotional destruction - Creating vulnerability / emotional diversion and a need for comfort or self destruction Pqrtrayed relationships / emotional destcuction - Words stated following sexual interactions by predator to victim of sexual targeting Thank you" - Form of Grooming of the victim for government Prostitution / Self destruction / discrediting the victims reputation and in connection with Prostitution and Human Trafficking ENDANGERMENT Shared access to Government Illegal Surveillance of Privacy of own home / locations / access to victims personal location / privacy including nudity, family members, friends, personal activities Exact locations at exact time I am in that location FRAUDULENT ACTIVITY Excessive living expenses - Reducing income Impeding on business source of funding - Closure of business / establishment and success Reducing sources of income - Attempt at resulting in Bankruptcy Reducing sources of income - Reducing funding for Legal Assistance to Contest and defend against the illegal activity Blocking access to marketing publication of first novel - Impeding upon success and financial gain Blocking access to assistance / medical/ legal - Cover up of the truth - Impeding upon Legal assistance to contest and prosecute - evidence in my possession Segregation from family and friends - Creating vulnerability / emotional needs / sexual targeting / segregating from protection and support ATTEMPTED MURDER TO APPEAR AS SUICIDE OR NATURAL CAUSES : 51C Falsified diagnosis, Psychosis / Schizophrenia - Resulting in detainment and prescribed medication / side effects Suicidal Tendencies Illegal Lawyer Representation, Heidi Salvemini, Westside Lawyers, Port Pirie - Illegally Obtained Medical Records of falsified diagnosis of Psychosis, Dr Kajani, Port Pine Resulting in detainment and prescribed medication / side effects Suicidal Tendencies Vincent BulonA- ncouragement into Psychological Counselling / Mental Health StateP)1 Second attempt to have me detained and medicated on prescribed medication / Side effects Suicidal Tendencies EFTA00263289 " • ■ V:1C-kj,,11-3,2 CZ )(-- 1 C C -MN C C:1- ",„:7 c: cc Vincent- - Ok i NI Ko (ti - Mig' Hi darling, V: "3 ‘A ' b can skype tonight, it will be best as it will be peaceful. Yes I saw the video and the kiss but I could not hear what you were saying. One thing at a time darlingyou have first to -c_t,,cc_co,pc, see your GP tomorrow and take it from there. I would not worry too much about Chicken Time, sounds to me like they were going to exploit you, the fact they didn't reply says a lot about their attitude. You will find something good in due time, but for now'ou need rest and reconstruction until you feel like the wonderful and beautiful woman you are. You were not born to suffer, nobody is, you EFTA00263290 go • 0 ' • has nc-en.aariin You cannot disappear. You have so much you can contribute, look forward. I am not the centre of the universe, you need to seek support and counseling,-, so you can overcome your fears of me being unfaithful and others wanting to hurt you. Nobody wants to hurt you, people that have met you in my environment think you are wonderful, look Stay for instance. EFTA00263291 VilIcent dive you trfefrfoney for the first visit but go from referral from your doctor otherwise it won't work. Yes I'll do that.*.you'll be with me first time so you can pay while we're there no need to transfer any money. don't want record either _, as this might impact my future in Australia. So it cr.(0._(.., has to be ayour name from your doctor. And I can pay the first visit. Ask how much it costs as I am getting seriously in the red with a lot of wasted money. EFTA00263292 Vincent ent Let's go to shower no I have enough. I have explained the same things one million times You simply want to believe only what you make up- and do not trust me. I know you are very intelligent. I respect you and always will. I believe in you and your future and your talent. I don't care about anyone else's business. to shower now. I love you. Because it k keeps haunenina continuously. EFTA00263293 Vincent Why didn't you Tell me earlier? I mentioned it a vveek ago when I found out by accident looking for info about the ceo of pirsa being sacked and you didn't say anything. How is this going to help you anyway'You also need *psychologicarbelp darling. You still need to be cured darling. I love you and I am not giving up. They have received over 1,000 complaints darling. 'INI hope you are not making things up with icac because of the_past. What is this mess going to give you at the end? I am so worried about you. ID 4MI • EFTA00263294 Vincent have over frYterzIrted futile things, t swear and ask god to kill me on the spot if I lie. I have never lied to you or disrespected you. Please don't start the discussion again but I want you to know that and hope you will one day believe me otherwise we cannot be together. If you saw a gp there is no way they would link you to icac and the rest. How *are you going to get help to recover from all these psychological traumas c--t .4 without medical help? If we ever get together again I will need to be able to work normally and trust nothing similar as last Thursday will happen ever again. And EFTA00263295 'YID, 164 Mr like. Xxkiss Ok beautiful, will text again when at home. Love Just arrived home beautiful. A bit tired, it was a long day since 6:30 this morning but it was a delight to see youAlitam happy to'll000l thelosychologisflor you c<cp,o-y but remember you need a referral for Medica__:gi, reimbursement. Let me know how ypu'd like to proceed and I will help you. It's a good idea darling to do iOYou need help and some therapy_ will be highly beneficial to EFTA00263296 NMI Vincent y vse,,,tt3ri."Ff,1fitiV I I CIL VVVI IN all tht;11.1 - ithout any precipitation of my feelings I am supporting you and accept how you feel and I have corrected things. Otherwise I would not he here talking to you, coming over the weekend, -Abooking_psychologist etc 01)t, wrie Cs`., c3c But it took along time, don't you think that I became cautious of it, like I had to make sure it wasn't happening again all the time at first..don't you have any understanding of th a t..that it was EFTA00263297 (ik.iv .."7 I didn 't (II\W vvitt1H4 1 kitow why \Art‘ div IiI.ILIIit ) Ubit cwpoinin ulit <I►icf i:111 11w rtr,1 If voti Ilmot I , t wiumi tni.•(‘( vot 4:11O11Iti ( ţo \tom own tilis ) (I4)111(t I11 11t^ \t(sţv I \V iII (', I t š it .I" , I ,II ii \Mil) I Ii.iv( ' l ic it t `Vi 'l l ' .1 . 111k'ţi It ) ( i( ) i l it . _ j , . 4» • , , I t ' ' . Í í II tl lci tIt.illt'•.•.Iiit. t i ytli lt i11t , iiIţt ti \ II( i\. ; I ( )\,, t ' Vt tH r\l, ţIl iţ 11w .it II pr t t 4 4 EFTA00263298 EFTA00263299 EFTA00263300 EFTA00263301 D1/4111..set., - 7 " I TANDARY 62&20 ale° suPPUED Ccacyace "cr' EV, beKke of tORGESTING . Vi KceiCTI tit Zis- atcl c_us.)spiREJ -cEsciet._ -Mere Start of relationship - DatingThelatIonship stresses that I have been reacting to IF 2errre -R.t (5Et-beg t u:44. - sexc4;L mgke_tern f\k t. Ai.. Italian Restaurant Young Italian waitress was being very friendly with Vincent - Vincent was responding being over friendly and flirty / charming in return. Acting like I wasn't even there - having personal conversations with each other in Italian - she turned her back towards me and focused the attention on Vincent - Vincent precipitated the behaviour - she leant right down towards him and placed her hand affectionately on his shoulder talking Italian. Vincent barely paid me any attention. I gave her a cross look and also a concerning look towards the manager of the restaurant who was in the kitchen. The waitress was taken off our table and replaced with another and put on the bar. After the meal Vincent turned sideways to me and faced the Italian waitress in the bar and followed her movements around the bar as if trying to catch her attention. I gave him a disconcerting look. We left the restaurant. I told him off back in the hotel room. I felt embarrassed, disrespected and betrayed, demeaned. Vincent apologised for his behaviour. 4 .1. Robbie Davies -Adelaide University - Colleague While Vincent was in another relationship - He left this relationship for me, had started dating me while in that relationship, was on a dating site Vincent told me that he had been sending Robbie Davies personal photos of himself, going to university dinners with her and presentations and lunches with her while at work - messages sent by text, phone. Robbie Davies was constantly ringing him every Sunday night - personal conversations and while he was travelling - she had invited him out to stay at her house out of town for a weekend - Vincent said that it was for a university conference, work related event - I said not without me your not - It didn't eventuate Vincent informed me. Robbie Davies seemed to seeking his attention continuously, constantly and he was responding. This happened continuously. Vincent and I went away for a romantic weekend, Robbie Davies rang on the Sunday night when we got back to his house - personal conversation - Vincent told her where he went for the weekend and did not mention that he was with me and spoke as if he went alone - Did not mention me once. He said the words goodnight to her. I questioned why he didn't mention that we had gone together or me at all - He said that he didn't speak about his personal life with his colleagues and that he wanted to tell her face to face not over the phone. This continued for months. I found out my dad had cancer 2 days earlier and waited all day for his comfort. He did not ask me how I was or mention my dad at all when he arrived home. The moment he got home all he spoke about was Robbie Davies and didn't even ask how I was - I told him off. He told me that he told her about me and our relationship - he said that she laughed. He told me how she was always acting playful with him and with each other and going to lunch with each other at work while I sat at home waiting for him at the end of each day. He stopped going to dinners and presentations he was going to with her and did not take me instead. I told him to back this friendship off and stop acting that way with another women and that it was hurting me, disrespecting our relationship and causing mistrust and damage. He told me he had stopped and stopped speaking about her at home all the time. But her emails kept coming through with personal emojos attached - not professional He snuck into the ensuite bathroom with his tablet one weekend after getting notification on his phone when we where out together that weekend and acted strangely when he read it and did not tell me anything, acted secretly. When I became suspicious of his behaviour I checked his phone while he was in the, bathroom. It was from Robbie Davies seeking his attention. When I confronted him and said did you sneak into the bathroom to send Robbie Davies a message he firmly and defensively denied it and said that I was being paranoid and told me if I didn't trust him our relationship was not going to work. I kept on about it for weeks because I knew the truth. He finally angrily admitted it when I told him I looked at his phone and blamed me for putting pressure on him about being on his emails all the time and every moment we were together. He never apologised and made me feel guilty for wanting him to give me some undivided attention away from work. EFTA00263302 Told me that he had bought her a present - a silk scarf - he had also bought a silk scarf for me when we first starting dating - I told him that it was inappropriate and personal and as he had bought one for me does he do that with all the women and I said it was now nothing special and had no special meaning and that I would not now ever wear it. He denied that he was doing anything wrong. I went to a university conference, Robbie Davies was there, I walked up to join Vincent's PA who was standing with her talking, I was visible to Robbie Davies. She would not look at me and held her head down towards the floor and rushed away quickly , did not say hello or acknowledge me in anyway. A Michelle - Adelaide University - employee Michelle kept messaging Vincent day and night through personal messaging apps with her personal issues. Contacted Vincent once at 4am in the morning with her personal issues while he was away from the university travelling in the US - He got out of bed to address and support her personal issues. This went on for months Would notfir her even though she was submitting wrong results and incompetent at her job - he was letting everyone else go when the grant money ran out but extended her contract. I told him to back this personal contact off and as her boss his relationship at work should be professional and he was acting inappropriately in a relationship (ours) which was damaging and disrespectful towards me. He denied that he was doing anything wrong. This behaviour stopped. Annie - Adelaide University - Colleague Kept getting sms messages at the same time every night when he got home from work - was acting strangely and suspiciously - He never spoke about Annie to me or mentioned her name. I found his behaviour odd and suspicious and relating to previous behaviour so I checked his sms messages on his tablet that were connected to his phone. I found numerous messages to Annie - meeting her for lunch constantly - lots of interaction - picking her up from another location of campus in my red car that he had bought for me and telling her that he missed her - I felt Betrayed. — f..Ec4(2. CT o I confronted him and told him that I had read the messages on his tablet - He said that it was a joke - seemed nervous and defensive - we argued - told him he was lying to me, hiding things and it was inappropriate behaviour in a relationship, that he was hurting me. He denied that he was doing anything wrong and blamed me for not trusting him. Pattern forming - Behavioural - I was aware He disconnected his phone from the tablet so no sms messages could be seen on it and changed his password when he travelled next. Saw the messages to Annie saying he was drinking with the girls and she should come and join him - Denied he was drinking at work and I was being paranoid - he was doing this after he had asked me to stop drinking - I quit for nearly a year - He also asked me to quit cigarettes - I did for nearly 7 months - he was doing this at work while I sat alone at home waiting for him to come home at the end of everyday. Natelie Betts - Adelaide University - employee I met her at a university lunch for Christmas - seemed very comfortable and friendly with Vincent - playful - sat down inbetween me and Vincent as we sat next to each other on a long wooden bench at the table, nearly in Vincent's lap - I saw it as a rival behaviour and odd and disrespectful to a couple and their relationship. Vincent was receiving constant messages from her while we were together and still messaging as soon as he got home from work while ignoring me and played with her - playful messages, laughing and giggling - sided with each other playfully against a company - told Natelie the way that this company had treated him which he had not spoke to me about or even mentioned - spoke about her constantly. EFTA00263303 XI noticed a pattern of his behaviour coming home playful and excessively on a high of playfulness • and happiness when she was at work - came home stressed and unhappy and saying his days were not constructive or productive and the atmosphere at work was boring because people were on holidays - she was on holidays. Told him it should be more productive because there's less distractions. He didn't seem excited about being with me. Never spoke about her husband or remembered his name but claimed to have gone out to their place for dinner once before he had met me - I went to school with her husband. She was sending him messages of chocolate cake that she had made and that she would bring it to work for him. Told me all about how Natelie was building a business and what it entailed - I asked him about what my business entailed that I was building, he could not answer me, he didn't know. Romantic Getaway Went away together for a weekend - it was a place that she had just been to for a holiday - she kept sending him emails on where to go and what to do there - he said how nice she is and goes out of her way to do things for him - when he had asked her to do overtime and extra work at work sfterrefused and said that she wouldn't do it Spoke about her constantly the whole time we were away. I said that I would cook him something special - he said that she had spent a whole weekend cooking that dish for him before we had met - I got angry with him by the end of the weekend - I had had enough and felt unimportant like she had the influence over him and she was all he was thinking about and we only went there because of that influence. He told me that he had bought her a silk scarf as a present - personal present not professional as he had bought for me and Robbie Davies. This behaviour continued for months I told him to stop it, it was disrespectful to our relationship and damaging, hurting me. He denied that he was doing anything wrong - he stopped this behaviour so he told me. She asked him to come to her place for dinner to teach her son French lessons. He said she in- vited us as her husband who I went to school with wanted to meet me and then mentioned about her son. At a university conference she asked me for us to come to her place for dinner as her son was going to France and he could learn the language from Vincent - she did not mention her husband at all or of him wanting to meet me. I told Vincent no we would not go and I didn't want to know her, that I found her to be disrespectful towards our relationship and me and acting inap- propriately. He told me this had stopped. Under suspicion He kept coming home with scratches on his shoulders and neck under a shirt and woollen jumper that he wore to work - I told him I was going to get some woolmix because he has scratches on his shoulders and neck every time he wears that jumper - he blamed my nails - we had not made love - the scratches stopped Suzanne - Adelaide University - Colleague Suzanne said that she was glad to met me at a university conference - that Vincent now had a spring in his step and adored me after seeming to have such a heavy life - told me he had told her he was coming up to the country to meet me when we had first met - mentioned my photograph in his office - he had never mentioned Suzanne before - had told me about Robbie Davies that he didn't talk about his personal life with his colleagues when I had confronted him about her. When confronted with this he told me that I was being paranoid - blamed me and denied any wrong doing. Office - Adelaide Uhiversity Gave him a photograph in a frame as a present for valentines day that he had told me that he had placed on his desk and removed it on the weekends so that the cleaners did not disturb his per- sonal belongings - he had numerous displays of presents and personal cards from colleagues on his shelves that are never shifted - went to office during the week - my picture was not displayed and sat in the packaging on the bench upon the pile of papers and things as if never touched and had just been placed there and forgotten - I asked him to put it on the display shelves with his EFTA00263304 HRGETC---D V Cal M CnNCELI__ t\PPoi MEnr - AweRG: V (Nce-Nec boccNie: coNtQCreD P NE IN OCWED -Th-R6 other displays facing the door entrance as you walk in - he placed it in a corner shelving where it is barely visible to anyone that walks in the office and sitting at his office table. Noticed a receipt for jewellery and a Gucchi carry bag in his office - when confronted he told me that it was a joke and there was nothing to it He had told me that he had bought a silk scarf for his PA - who is my friend f Stopped looking deep into my eyes and telling me I had the most beautiful eyes and started to look away all the time, dropping his eyes from mine - I found this behaviour deceitful like he had something to hide. Walking along the beach - talking about the blue of the sky - I said you use to say my eyes were bluer and more beautiful than the sky - Vincent answered yes they are but I like brown eyes too - he has never mentioned brown eyes before Wouldn't stop messaging and talking to his ex who lived in Sweden where he also worked for nearly a year - did not tell anyone in Sweden that we were together for nearly a year - said that he did not talk about his personal life with his colleagues but everyone knew that he had been with his ex while they were together. I had to keep quiet and stay out of view while living with him in his home every time he Skyped with his parents and he pretended with them to still be with his ex partner - he told me he didn't want to worry them about him or cause them to worry - said that he wanted to tell them in person - he told them nearly a year later while he was travelling - then he introduced me over Skype. 2 \k, He took me to Norway - while at the airport a woman colleague approached, they were talking very friendly - he had never mentioned her to me - she looked me up and down strangely While at a science conference he chased after this woman attentively while I was with him talking friendly on a personal level - followed her to a dining table, we sat down, he turned his back to me and gave her his full attention, laughing and giggling together while she was flicking her hair and laughing with him while he leaned in closer - I felt ignored, embarrassed and disrespected - inappropriate behaviour to our relationship - He finally turned to me - I gave him a disconcerting look - he kept his attention on me after that and ignored her - I told him off for this when we got back to the hotel room - he denied that he was acting inappropriately A - . Sitting in an airport - Europe after the convention - a blonde lady was sitting in a chair next to us - Vincent started staring at her and followed her with his eyes up and down the corridor and back while he sat next to me like I wasn't even there - I threatened to walk out and come back to Australia that it was the end of our relationship - he got very worried and apologised. I met his parents on this trip. Vincent asked me to marry him several times, I said yes - when I would talk about it, when and how he would tell me that it made him feel nervous - he says now that he won't marry me until I trust him Marta - Adelaide University - connected to a colleague - Science Twitter account This woman suddenly appeared on his twitter account - she was following him on the account and he took a keen interest in her - following her following him and on the account all the time - he showed me a picture of her and said that he had asked a colleague about her and the picture she was using on her twitter account was not her but a picture of a young blond student of hers. Vincent had had no previous direct contact with Marta before this - Marta started sending him personal photos of her holidays, beaches by email and personal messages - when confronted he denied he had donesnything wrong and that she was connected to one of his projects through a direct colleague of the project but that he had not had direct contact with her before - I said what did you do or how did you act with her to make her think that she could get personal with you - he denied doing anything wrong and that he did not respond to the email and blamed me for being untrusting and paranoid. EFTA00263305 Kylie - Adelaide University - colleague Vincent and I were messaging during the morning—he said that he was swamped with work and under the pump, very busy and he had to work more that evening as he had been during the week - something, intuition made me look at his work day calendar on his tablet, daily tasks - the afternoon was set aside and read Drinks with Kylie - he did not mention this or have not heard of Kylie before - when confronted he denied doing anything wrong and that it was a farewell party for Kylie and a lot of people had been invited as she was leaving the university - I questioned the content of the message as displayed on his calendar which seemed unprofessional and said that it would have been more professional and logical to have been written in as Farewell party for Kylie if that's what it was - once again he described her personally as not being attractive and blamed me for being untrusting and paranoid I over reacted to this event after all of these events happening continuously over a period of a year and I had become exasperated with this kind of behaviour which was extremely hurtful, frustrating and demeaning and I felt unsupported emotionally - I slapped him a couple of times hard when I was confronting him over this event - I moved out of the house - we are still together but need-to address these issues and me to re learn how to react to emotional stresses - Vincent has recently agreed and now says that he does understand how I feel about this behaviour and accepts how I feel - I now feel relieved and am hoping to mend our relationship with this new understanding and acceptance I have suffered bad relationships of violence, betrayal, lies and cheating which made me very aware of odd, peculiar behaviour and deceitful behaviour which Vincent was displaying continuously. I do not think that I was making this up and was within my rights to feel lied to, betrayed, disrespected and demeaned. It felt like a disrespect of my intelligence, intuition and to me as a person and my experiences within relationships very obvious. He said I had no right to check his personal messages based on all this information Vincent lived a life of solitude, dedicated to work, very lonely, no woman affections until late in life. I was his second relationship. I feel that he is inexperienced in relationships and had felt neglected emotionally and physically for most of his life and developed this behaviour of seeking women's attention at work because of this lifestyle and is unaware of his own behaviour and now does not want to give up the attention he receives as it makes him feel important and not neglected, this is why he denies the behaviour and blames me. I feel now because I have had bad relationships and a hard life that I wanted to badly believe that I was worthy of love and deserved the life he gave me, that I wanted it so badly that I took the blame, turned a blind eye reluctantly against my intuition and made excuses for his behaviour because of the life that he had lived and his inexperience in relationships. That I wanted to give him everything he had not had and wanted him to feel loved. I found him endearing. I do love him very much and want to address these issues in our relationship and re learn how to react cor- rectly to emotional stresses without over reacting and going to extremes - I want to learn how to express how I feel correctly before it becomes a explosive issue. I want Vincent to address this behaviour, accept it as inappropriate and to not hurt me with it anymore. Sweden - Free coffee - a man in a restaurant at the units where we were staying was giving me free coffee - Vincent became jealous and tight lipped, angry and accused me of flirting with him to get the coffee and said that he would shoot him—he now says that he was joking and denies that he got jealous A man said hello to me on a footpath as I got out of the car -Vincent became instantly angry and jealous and said you only said hello back because your polite didn't you - I said yes - he said I'll kill him 4 If a man looked at me admiringly he would put his arm around me and say fuck off she's mine He was jealous and angry over any man showing me any interest even though I did not respond EFTA00263306