DS9 Document EFTA01250652

Sent Mon, 11 r 2011 18:19:59 -0400 From: "Grime( To: I'd like to send a reply to e mail. I don't think ignoring it will make it or her go away and I'd rather deal directly with her even if you don't want to. Below is what I'd like to send I have spent many hours and days and months and years working and travelling with =. I liked her from the moment we met and enjoyed her company and benefited from all her hel t and ener and 'oie de vivre for all the time we worked together. I have stayed in touch with her and been friends with her since she left I have seen her many times since then and we were most recently in touch this Christmas. I have always been there for and have also always said that I would be there for her in anyway at anytime the same way I would a family member knowing that her chosen career was always going to be difficult and finding good paying jobs always a challenge as I know first hand myself. I have helped her find other jobs and when ever she reached out or we met tried to suggest other opportunities that I thought she might like or things that I thought would be interesting to her. I was thrilled for her when she said she had met the man of her dreams and was going to marry him. I am very sad to learn how has felt and reacted to the appalling press onslaught. I was very distressed to see her name attached at all. I am not dressing many of the more shocking and strange things in your letter because some of them I have no knowledge of and others I question and even more I don't comprehend and the whole is very sad to the point that I am also in tears. I have considered myself a friend of for almost and I still consider myself a friend of I note you say ou don't want her talking to me however I feel thatalvice, or help or counsel is best given either to he and whom for sure have best interests at heart and whom I mist to guide me if something is needed or wanted from me. I cannot speak for Jeffrey as knows I have not been with him for many years and think that should you wish to communicate with him you should do so separately from me. Please, give my Love and please tell her I would like to talk to her or come and see her or talk if that would be helpful in some way. I hope, I very much hope, that her Fiance does not walk away as you alluded - I can't imagine anyone walking away especially under such circumstances when the women you loved is having a difficult time - she is the same person as she was before someone wrote a story or phoned her for a comment - I hope friends rally and support her as I imagine they do, I hope family gives her un conditional Love and support as I am sure they do and I hope a brighter and happier time is on the horizon for all soon EFTA_00052088 EFTA01250652